It’s raining outside, and as you might expect, I am bored [big time].
So I thought I would give you a little taste of some of the discussions I’ve come across on the various list serves I belong to in relation to my MCL, which I made particular note of, concerning medical care and what ever.
In this first post, a woman is complaining about the poor care she is receiving from her primary care physician (PCP).
I left my PCP’s office in tears today. I’ll give you a little background, when I do go I usually have to wait 1 to 1/2 hr to even see him, then, he’s with me for about 2 minutes. <snip>
Anyway, I’m in constant pain, I mean constant, with the RA, the joint pain from the chemo, the bursitis and degeneration in my hip, the carpal tunnel in both hands, all of which happened after chemo. The Doctor came in and said “what’s going on today” I said “I’m in pain” his reply “again?”. He says “I’ll send someone in with your prescriptions” and started leaving the room, I said “wait” and he replied with “I’ll be right back”. When he came back I asked if he has even read my chart concerning all the pain I’m in, he said yeah but he was more concerned with the “cancer”. He proceeded to leave the room again and I said I wanted to talk to him about some things, again, he said he’d be back. When he finally came back I asked him about a pain management program because I want to work, which is getting harder every day. He said “let’s wait until after your pet scan and we’ll worry about it then” I just felt like he was saying let’s wait to see if worth the trouble or not or let’s see if you’re going to live first, then he left the room, all this happened in about a 2-3 minute span.
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I have to go to Doctor’s “in network” so my options are kind of limited, but I don’t think I can ever see that Doctor again after today!!!
That’s unfortunate, but doesn’t she understand that as reimbursements continually get cut to health care providers by the government (Medicare/Medicaid), and by health insurance companies [to increase profits], some doctors don’t always have the time to be as concerned, and they just aren’t going to perform to the best of their abilities.
Just think about that for a minute. How would you feel if you were asked to work for less money each year?
And here’s another email from some one who wants his insurance company to pay for a visit to an out of network doctor, when his plan doesn’t give him that option.
I was wondering if anyone has advice for an appeal letter to send to our insurance company to appeal our denied request to go see an out of network physician for a second opinion. If possible please also forward my wife on any suggestions or advice as we will be working together to come up with a letter.
I guess he must think he’s in a country like France or the UK where you can see any doctor you choose. But he’s not. He’s in the good old US of A, where we have enough trouble just getting the benefits we’re entitled to, let alone trying to squeeze the for-profit health insurance industry for benefits we’re not entitled to. GOOD LUCK! (I might also had some of my comments back to him weren’t well received by a few members of the message board.)
And finally, there’s even some religious undertones which go on here. One lady was upset because her cousin, diagnosed with non hodgkins lymphoma refused treatment, and just wanted to die. A lot of the posts were supportive, but this one post got my ire.
The neighbor down the street, at eighty-something had had successful heart surgery and seemed to be on the mend after months of suffering and several hospitalizations. She was diabetic but then suddenly developed kidney failure. She out and out refused dialysis. Wouldn’t discuss it and her conversation amounted to, I’m ready to die. Period. End of story. Her husband and friends’ pleas were ignored. Then in her final two days’ dying in an extended care facility she regretted her choice (told my wife who works there). Rational decisions aren’t everyone’s choices. Sad to say.
Anyone else think this post is contrived, and designed to advance an agenda?
Oh well, like I said, I was bored.
